A number of significant milestones have occurred here in the UK recently. One very personal and at least two very public, all of which have got me thinking.
Arguably the greatest dramatist of all time, and almost certainly the best known globally, William Shakespeare died exactly 400 years ago yesterday, as I write. Also, last Friday, Her Majesty Queen Elizabeth had her 90th birthday. Finally, I lost my mother almost exactly one month ago.
This morning, for a number of reasons, all of these events came together to make me think on my life; business, private and personal.
I have entitled this blog by using one of Shakespeare's quotes, and the one I'd like to believe, when the time comes, as it must, for me to "shuffle off this mortal coil"² that others may think of me. That said, like most of us I suspect I will have fallen well short. I love too few, trust too many and have done wrong to some.
But that brings me on to the Queen. Not brought up expecting to be monarch, her uncle's abdication and father's early death lead her, in 1952 at the age of 25, to ascend to the throne.
And the reason she has inspired me in this musing? Well she took an oath at her coronation "before God and for my life", and she has steadfastly stuck to her pledge. Many other Monarchs have abdicated in favour of their children or siblings. Thus they have allowed themselves to retire in comfort.
Queen Elizabeth has not. It is understood that she is convinced that she made a binding oath to her subjects, before God and her subjects, and that to abdicate would be a breaking of that oath. Many have questioned if she has stuck to aspects of the oath, many questioned her judgement at times, but as she is only human, I have no doubt that she believed at the time that she was adhering to her oath.
Thus, seeing her at 90, still carrying out her duties as she understands them, and trying to live that Shakespearean motto I've quoted, is inspiring to me at least. As I said before, I hope that some at least will say the same for all of us when the time comes.
Then there is the death of my mum. Given my dad died some 16 years ago, it strikes me that at the age of 61, I am now an orphan. Whilst that is more sophistry than sobering in many ways, it is thought provoking. At my mum's funeral there were a great many people there that I did not know, but for whom my mum had a positive effect which led them to come and say goodbye. Additionally, the notes from family and friends around the world who regretted being unable to attend made me realise just how many lives we all effect, whether we know it or not.
So, dear reader, remember "All the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely players"³. So when it comes to my "exit", I pray and hope that the "many parts" I've played, and they are numerous, those that are left can truly at least say "He 'Loved all', maybe trusted more than a few, but tried at all times to "do wrong to none". For a mere mortal, I believe that is the best we can strive for.
So to conclude, I will quote Shakespeare again if I may.
"This above all; to thine own self be true, and it must follow as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man"²
William Shakespeare, born 23 April 1564-died 23 April 1616 ~
¹All's Well That Ends Well
²Hamlet
³As you like it